Monday, May 2, 2016

TOO MUCH TALK:


(From my book of Aphorisms- 'Thoughts To Make You Think' By Helen Leigh - http://thoughtstomakeyouthink.doomby.com  - Chapter One - Personal Development)



Sometimes we Talk over our feelings.. Too much talk deadens the senses..

If we explain too much then we move out of our heart and into our head and then we tend to objectify, categorise and box ourselves and others..

But When we allow ourselves to freely feel, even at the risk of taking off our suit of armour and possibly getting hurt or loosing someone, we are still opening ourselves up to adding feelings to our 'Own World'...

Who Cares about your life, You, what you do, all the tiny details of your life?? Who is recording your every move?? ..

No one is!!!!

But..

YOU ARE!!!!..

And so what ever you put into 'Your World' is what you put in to yourself..

What do you treasure? What do you look at when you are alone?.. Who are you? What do you like? What is your world???.. This is Your Permanence..

This is what you can give and share with others, this is what you can lift others with and open their eyes too, to their own worlds..

....But you don't have to analyse or explain your world, because you want to feel all the feelings in there..

You want to keep that feeling of when you loved something so much and for so long (like an art work or childhood Movie, or A family Quilt, etc)..

And then finally you got to have it!....And you said to yourself that if you never get another thing and just have this then you will be happy... Hold that!

Don't forget how you treasure things, don't devalue it and forget it and keep looking to the next thing or looking to the next person to make you happy, or thinking that your life would be better if......

Treasure what you have now.. what ever it is, places, people, objects,... Don't talk over it, or box it,.. Don't put on a hard shell in case it gets taken away.

One touch can equal a thousand explanations.. So Touch more.... Treasure more.. And talk/think less...

WEAK WILLED PEOPLE:


(From my book of Aphorisms- 'Thoughts To Make You Think' By Helen Leigh - http://thoughtstomakeyouthink.doomby.com  - Chapter One - Personal Development)



Some people will never do anything for themselves and never take responsibility for their consequences.. They will constantly place the responsibility on others;... on anyone who is willing to support them, so they don't have to do anything about it themselves.

They use/have a split second memory, unable to recall the consequences of their actions, how it affected others or their own lives, how much it hurt, or took away from their own lives, or how to keep their own integrity, ..

When someone has filled them up with good advice, they will talk a great game with that support, But will never actually walk it... And when they are on their own or it gets hard they throw in all they have talked about or even worked towards (with their split second memory that wipes everything) so that they can be selfish and do what they Want to do (despite affecting and hurting themselves or others)

They end up Using people and Exhausting everyone around them because they make people constantly support them and prop them up.. (work for them) And Although they may have great intentions, they end up Using good, loving people by not taking responsibility.

They Use their weakness as a manipulation to get sympathy support, love and affection.. (help me) All the things they want but aren't willing to work for or produce inside themselves.. (Like Adult Children, not willing to step up and grow up; and constantly looking for a parent/authority to tell them what to do, do things for them, and revolve themselves around them)

Eventually the Good People stop Helping, because they can't keep filling vessels that keep emptying themselves on a Whim, (no matter how much they want to help) and despite whether these 'Weak Willed' people have good hearts or not, or good intentions, they will end up being around people who just use them back, people who have no respect for them, manipulators, People who don't care, because they can't care for them; Care can't exist around a 'Weak Willed' person because by default when shirking their own responsibility; they become Users themselves and this type of selfishness never takes anyone else's feelings or health into concern and anyone who cares for them will get hurt..
We all have elements of 'Weak Will', ….All of us... And we all have a tendency to wipe our memory of the consequences, thinking that this time we can get away with it, and even the world does this to us, wipes us of our memory of what we should be doing ourselves and instead follow what others are doing... and if you don't keep up your own responsibility, you can become depressed or angry if you don't feel you fit in or have 'something' to show.. etc...

But in the end, it is a choice of Discipline and Strength to not make others Responsible and to take the reins of your own life and steer it to where you want it to go.






Monday, February 15, 2016

Don't Work If You Don't Get Paid.


(From my book of Aphorisms- 'Thoughts To Make You Think' By Helen Leigh - http://thoughtstomakeyouthink.doomby.com  - Chapter One - Personal Development)





Don't Work If You Don't Get Paid.

(energy, emotions, people, situations)


WATCH YOUR THOUGHTS - NO THOUGHTS, NO PROBLEMS:


From my book of Aphorisms- 'Thoughts To Make You Think' By Helen Leigh - http://thoughtstomakeyouthink.doomby.com  - Chapter One - Personal Development)


 


As a discipline, ask yourself if thinking what you are thinking; giving you a Positive (giving you energy, going somewhere) or a Negative (draining your energy, going no where)

We exist beyond our thoughts or 'Status' - : Who am I? (unanswerable fear question)

We are energy; feeling...

When you were a baby, you didn't know who you were, yet you existed; and experiencing life...

In an Orgasm, do you care who you are or even that you have a body?..:) .... (pleasure)

You exist and continue to be Who You Are without having to tell yourself or anyone else who you are; and so you are Energy, … Because you are energy, you are directed by FEELING, And You will be led by where ever you Tell yourself to go.

You have the 'freedom' to Think.. This freedom is given to you, so direct it to love, tell yourself loving things, happy things, good things and make sure you direct yourself away from following dead paths or fear paths that lead you no where..

Why tell yourself you are shit at something? Why know this? Why tell yourself you got something wrong, said something wrong or that you can't do something, why even bring it up?

Aren't you worth more than giving yourself pain??

If you did something to hurt someone or did something that had a negative affect on you, you don't have to tell yourself not to do it again.. unless you are mentally disabled in some way..:).. I mean; you don't touch the hot element on the stove every day to remind yourself that it will burn your finger, and then burn your finger over and over do you??!.. So, You don't have to replay a bad 'incident over and over to 'learn', or to 'Remember'; not to hurt another, not to make yourself look bad ,not to get tricked the next time, or to plot revenge when it happens again.. You know it was bad, you Felt it and you also know by your FEELINGS that you Don't want that.. You don't have to write things down or map them out, that is why we have experiences.. You learn then move on, or repeat several times and then move on.. (generally in my case :) )

The less you talk, both inward and outwardly, the more you gain, as it isn't what you say that directs your life, it is how you feel; how you feel about yourself, others, life.. Feelings are an extension of yourself and they extend you outward too. You didn't think yourself into existence (i.e.: Mathematically thought constructed your body, hair, skin, nationality with chemical compound ratios and measurements) you Dreamed yourself in, felt yourself in and everything you have been given hasn't been the product of your controlled mind and planning, you can't control others, their decisions or what happens next, but it has been your 'Connection' to things, how you felt, how you reached out, and what was 'Drawn' to you.... That is how you decide what to do next, and where you steer your life, it comes from inspiration... joy... feeling. That is what drives you....
In fact.... You don't have to think at all, or know yourself or know anything to Exist and be magnificent, so don't think yourself out of it.. :)


IGNORING:


From my book of Aphorisms- 'Thoughts To Make You Think' By Helen Leigh - http://thoughtstomakeyouthink.doomby.com  - Chapter One - Personal Development)







If you ignore it, it doesn't go away, it just leaves more work for those who aren't ignoring.






POEM: 'Reflecting Horizons' By Helen Leigh




In the journey you ride alone,
I am the mist that follows behind.
When the world gets really loud,
I'll be the quiet in your mind.
When your vibrant like a star,
I'll be watching with a smile,
You can sit in peace with me,
And you can rest for awhile.

I will be the rock you lay,
Your foundation down,
You can build your home on me,
And I will be your ground.
You can feel safe to know,
When your shining like the Sun,
I will cherish who you are,
In 'Reflecting Horizons'.

For all the times you sacrificed,
And the silent tears you shed,
For the conditional love,
That left you for dead.
I will always be listening,
With an unconditional heart,
I will protect you like the little ones,
To walk your glory path.

You can lay your foundation,
Down upon me,
You can build a solid home,
And your ground I will be,
You can feel safe to know,
When your shining like the Sun,
I will always be here,
'Reflecting Horizons'.

Wednesday, February 10, 2016

POEM: "The Girl With The Raven Hair'. By Helen Leigh



Moonlight lit the cold night air,
And showed the face of true despair,
Was such a girl embodied there,
The girl with the Raven hair.

She sat upon the seat and wept,
While the winds they blew for her bereft,
And revealed that there was nothing left,
The girl with the Sparrow breast.

With tear filled eyes soaked hopeless face,
She looked up from the deep disgrace,
And begged to change with nights embrace,
The girl with the Robins gaze.

At once the chill had left the air,
Clouds parted way and a Star appeared,
To let her know that someone's there,
For the girl with the Raven hair.