discipline, ask yourself if thinking what you are thinking; giving
you a Positive (giving you energy, going somewhere) or a Negative
(draining your energy, going no where)
beyond our thoughts or 'Status' - : Who am I? (unanswerable fear
were a baby, you didn't know who you were, yet you existed; and
Orgasm, do you care who you are or even that you have a body?..:)
exist and continue to be Who You Are without having to tell yourself
or anyone else who you are; and so you are Energy, … Because you
are energy, you are directed by FEELING, And You will be led by
where ever you Tell yourself to go.
the 'freedom' to Think.. This freedom is given to you, so direct it
to love, tell yourself loving things, happy things, good things and
make sure you direct yourself away from following dead paths or fear
paths that lead you no where..
yourself you are shit at something? Why know this? Why tell yourself
you got something wrong, said something wrong or that you can't do
something, why even bring it up?
you worth more than giving yourself pain??
did something to hurt someone or did something that had a negative
affect on you, you don't have to tell yourself not to do it again..
unless you are mentally disabled in some way..:).. I mean; you don't
touch the hot element on the stove every day to remind yourself that
it will burn your finger, and then burn your finger over and over do
you??!.. So, You don't have to replay a bad 'incident over and over
to 'learn', or to 'Remember'; not to hurt another, not to make
yourself look bad ,not to get tricked the next time, or to plot
revenge when it happens again.. You know it was bad, you Felt it and
you also know by your FEELINGS that you Don't want that.. You don't
have to write things down or map them out, that is why we have
experiences.. You learn then move on, or repeat several times and
then move on.. (generally in my case :) )
you talk, both inward and outwardly, the more you gain, as it isn't
what you say that directs your life, it is how you feel; how you feel
about yourself, others, life.. Feelings are an extension of yourself
and they extend you outward too. You didn't think yourself into
existence (i.e.: Mathematically thought constructed your body, hair,
skin, nationality with chemical compound ratios and measurements) you
Dreamed yourself in, felt yourself in and everything you have been
given hasn't been the product of your controlled mind and planning,
you can't control others, their decisions or what happens next, but
it has been your 'Connection' to things, how you felt, how you
reached out, and what was 'Drawn' to you.... That is how you decide
what to do next, and where you steer your life, it comes from
inspiration... joy... feeling. That is what drives you.... In
fact.... You don't have to think at all, or know yourself or know
anything to Exist and be magnificent, so don't think yourself out of
In the journey you ride alone, I am the mist
that follows behind. When the world gets really loud, I'll be
the quiet in your mind. When your vibrant like a star, I'll
be watching with a smile, You can sit in peace with me, And
you can rest for awhile.
I will be the rock you lay, Your
foundation down, You can build your home on me, And I will be
your ground. You can feel safe to know, When your shining like
the Sun, I will cherish who you are, In 'Reflecting
For all the times you sacrificed, And the
silent tears you shed, For the conditional love, That left
you for dead. I will always be listening, With an
unconditional heart, I will protect you like the little ones, To
walk your glory path.
You can lay your foundation, Down
upon me, You can build a solid home, And your ground I will
be, You can feel safe to know, When your shining like the
Sun, I will always be here, 'Reflecting Horizons'.
of Maturity is sharing your best with others, and thinking of others,
it is, having your own life direction27,
and not just taking what people give you - (like they are nothing),
and then demanding every thing goes your way, including from life as
well as from others.
can't demand people say what you want, do what you want, react how
you want.. Or you have the right to hate them or give them pain, or
tantrum in negative anger which you think is fine to give to others
because your life sucks so much it is justified..?.... How Immature,
irresponsible and compassion-less??
applies to your life also..
childish to get angry (have a tantrum) Cry, or become Stubborn if
things aren't going your way.
lends us the advantage to listen and feel beyond our limitations it
allows us to see what we are trying to achieve and who we are trying
to be and so whatever is disturbing us in the present, ie: an awful
job, situation or person, that this only temporary to what is going
to happen, and we may even see that these problems are necessary for
us to address our own hidden darkness, and flaws, and for this to be
exposed into the light so that we can achieve even greater than what
we are envisioning.
immature to make people or situations, responsible for your feelings
and life, and you can't hide behind people and hold them to ransom to
change your life, or guilt them into looking after you or only your
Children 'Need' Mummy's and Daddy's to put their own feelings aside
and have it be all about YOU and what you want regardless of whether
other people have feelings...
adults have their own life, they SHARE feelings, they don't need
someone to be happy or their not happy, (“I am happy if you are
happy, I am sad if you are sad”).... As a mature adult you Choose
what emotion you want to give out and it is never a Negative, Self
allows you realise that life is a series of letting go, not holding
on, and the more you can let go, (of conditions) the more love you
can't escape Cause and Affect, and YOU have to do what needs
can't Pray and think that this will somehow over-ride cause and
affect, because you don't live in a fantasy, but in a causal
affecting place - 'Reality'...
pray that your neighbours turn their loud music down at 1am and then
get angry at God for not hearing your prayers, you can pray for your
partner or child to get well and then get angry at karma for not
giving you justice; since you always give to people and do the right
will Change unless you take Action.
although I do believe there is an 'Element Energy' that provides
source elements of love, intuition, projection, …. whatever you
name this element, (ie: God); this is not however a physical
manifestation of a 'Magic Genie' in the clouds that can somehow grant
you what you ask for.. It is a childish concept to shirk your own
responsibilities for a wish, prayer or a hope (like praying to Santa
Clause and then deciding you hate life when he doesn't give you what
you want.. An immature concept and a 'Victimised' one.)
indeed does happen, because we do live on a planet with gravity, you
can fall down, and other people can trip you, they can also not tell
you to avoid the hole that you are about to walk in because they are
too busy looking up at the sky and praying for God to fill in the
hole instead of doing the work and filling in the hole themselves!
(are you feeling this parable?!)
what truly matters is how you decide to get up once your in the
hole.. Okay, so prayer and being a good person doesn't work, then
what does? ….
faith in yourself does, Believing that you will find a way and
Actioning it, Holding on to that source Element inside you that does
guide your intuition like a compass,Knowing how to use this gravity
to your advantage....What is low always has the best vantage point to
see how to navigate the way ahead, just like in a fire, if you aren't
up amongst the smoke, and confusion, but dropped Low, the clearer the
air is and the more you can see.
Reality is that if you ignore someone(s) that is giving to you, or
not crediting them, then they will stop giving to you. If you
don't appreciate what you have, it isn't that God 'The Magic Genie'
will take it away or that Karma will deal with you, it is that you
will simply give your things away or things will get lost or get
thrown out and you won't notice, until one day you will feel like you
want some love or nostalgia and look around and find you have
greater lesson is more in how you respond to life within yourself and
what you are willing to Action.... The more you can cultivate the
goodness inside yourself, the more you can stop thinking negatively,
the more you can cherish what you have and those that do love you or
give to you that are around you, Then the more strength you will have
to be able to master the gravity of Cause and Affect and navigate
through life's fires.
truly want to make changes to yourself, you have to hold a future
projection of who you want to be. Keep holding this projection; the
feelings you want, the attitude you want, the way you want to be. Let
those around you that don't like this fall away and keep holding your
said that one day the Buddha was walking through a village. A very
angry and rude young man came up and began insulting him. “You have
no right teaching others,” he shouted. “You are as stupid as
everyone else. You are nothing but a fake!”
Buddha was not upset by these insults. Instead he asked the young
man, “Tell me, if you buy a gift for someone, and that person does
not take it, to whom does the gift belong?”
young man was surprised to be asked such a strange question and
answered, “It would belong to me, because I bought the gift.”
Buddha smiled and said, “That is correct. And it is exactly the
same with your anger. If you become angry with me and I do not get
insulted, then the anger falls back on you. You are then the only one
who becomes unhappy, not me. All you have done is hurt yourself.”